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FIND YOUR BEST SELF men's group 2019

A three-month somatic, spiritual, and emotional transformation through outdoor & indoor experiences. This group is designed to support men in healing and build trust, in the wake of causing trauma to their partner. There is a physically challenging component designed to bring you to your limit regardless of your fitness level.
This unique group includes:
  • physical fitness suggestions by a SealFit certified coach
  • body-centered recovery
  • group yoga
  • outdoor team challenges
  • group meditation
  • guest speakers
  • a few surprises!
Also included: reading assignments, writing assignments, group work, connecting with a team member between sessions, and a specific healing plan for each person. 
You need not be an athlete, but minimum physical fitness is suggested.

time comittment:

3 months

You may not miss a meeting and all homework must be completed each week. If total committment cannot be made, please don't apply.


We will meet on the first and third Saturday of every month from 8-10:30am. November 2019-January 2020. 


4013 Longhorn Drive, Lafayette, CO 80026



There will be no refunds for any reason.

GEAR requirements:
physical requirements:

As you have heard before “ It’s mostly mental.” The number one best preparation is to know WHY you are entering this challenge. Your "why" must go beyond simply "overcoming my issue."

  • Is it to strengthen or repair your marriage or relationships?

  • Shed a compulsive behavior, letting your best self control your actions?

  • Give energy to a healing process? Find post-traumatic growth rather than death?

  • Mark a new beginning? 

  • Enter a new place where you concretize who you are and what you want to be?

  • Know you are capable of reaching the end of yourself physically, emotionally, and beyond?

  • To push yourself forward and grab ahold of more than you have been living?

  • Get outside of yourself, put your team first, feel connected to something greater than yourself?

Spend time figuring this out- dig deep.

This will be critical to your success. 


For a good example, read "Invictus" by William Ernest Henley

  • An great attitude

  • A notepad and pen

  • Any assigned homework

  • Rucksack or a day backpack capable of holding 30 pounds of gear

  • Over-the-ankle boots or lightweight hikers (must be over the ankle) and make sure they are broken in

  • 2 pairs of wool socks

  • Long pants BDU's (must be black or camo).  Here are two options: 

  • Black nylon type belt

  • 2 white t-shirts (one that will fit over layers) with your initials neatly stenciled or drawn on front and back

  • Layers for cold weather exercise, hat, gloves

  • Change of clothes

  • Head lamp and spare batteries

  • Energy gels, snacks, bars

  • Quart or liter bottle filled with water or energy drink.

Your mind will thank you if you do the necessary physical preparation to be at your best for this event. During training for any Find Your Best Self event, you will develop mental and emotional resilience. We are available to help you with tips for your preparation. We want you to succeed. For those who want a detailed training plan we recommend Joining Seal Grinder PT. The coaches can customize a training plan specific for a Find Your Best Self event.


By the start date in November, it is suggested that you are able to complete:

  • 5 strict pull-ups

  • 30 sit-ups in a minute

  • Ruck 45 minutes with a 20lb pack or heavier

  • 40 consecutive push-ups in a minute

  • 40 air squats below 90 degrees in a minute


If you are unclear on any of these standards, click here. Then in the search box type the exercise you want to learn more about.  If you still have questions, contact me.

Here are several suggested supplemental exercises to help you prepare:

  • Biking

  • Swimming

  • Jogging

  • Weights

  • Circuit training

  • Lots of burpees and more burpees

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